Published in ILLUMINATION·PinnedThe Breastaurant is Not a ThreatYes, he tells me and invites me. Confidence is key. It all started with the infamous HOOTERS chain. The bright tiny orange shorts and the tight white tank tops with the logo printed across the chest of each lady. Eyes up gentlemen the women would prefer you to look them…Confidence5 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Jun 26The Education SystemWhy you shouldn’t depend on the system to make your child successful. Children all over the world wake up each day to attend some form of the institutionalized school system. Parents sigh in relief thinking how safe their children are as they drop them off at school. Now sure in…Society5 min read
Published in A Parent Is Born·May 29Daddy’s Little GirlsA different story. — As the summer heat rose to 104 degrees it was at that moment my mother helped us pack our clothes because summer times were spent at our father’s house. Statistically speaking another father-daughter relationship was separated by the courts. The story of how it all happened resembles an untold mystery…Parenting3 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Apr 11Girls Trip5 things to consider the next time you plan As you get older the friend groups you always spent your time with, begin to change. People you hung out with get busier, life gets in the way, and well you start to talk less and less. Well, I met a…Travel4 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Feb 7Is it Time to Take a Break from Writing?3 ways to know — If you are reading this then you have probably scrolled through 15 other articles talking about writing on any platform. Most people who are publishing on Medium or any other writing platform are often looking for ways to improve. Now I know you have read many articles which tell you…Writing3 min read
Published in A Parent Is Born·Jun 29, 2021Parenting and JudgementReflections of parenting in a “never enough” culture. — During a much-needed time of growth, I began reading Brene Brown’s bestseller Daring Greatly. I expected to get more insight into being a better leader however I learned more about my personal beliefs when it came to parenting. …Parenting5 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Jan 20, 20213 Ways to Control Your EmotionsEmotions are like a roller coaster — It happened again, someone said something and it pierced through the heart like an arrow. Now the heat begins to rise through your hands up your arms and over to your neck. Your throat tightens and your eyes start to water some. At this point, you can either scream out…Self Regulation3 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Dec 28, 2020Why It Is Hard For Me To Write On MediumPerfection and Money stunt creativity — Since July of 2020, I have submitted articles for others to read out of the pure joy of just being able to write on a platform and call myself a “writer”. …Medium3 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Nov 30, 2020I Bullied My Child For Two YearsIt is not too late to make a change in behavior. — As a parent, there is no one right way to make decisions. You have to learn to listen really well and pay close attention to a lot of different things at once. …Parenting6 min read
Published in The SHE·Nov 7, 2020The Perfect WifeDo you fit into this box? Most likely the answer is No! — It goes to say most women who dream of getting married have that vision of the picture-perfect relationship. Marrying a partner who is your best friend. Blah Blah Blah. …Marriage5 min read